Wishing you all the joys of the season. We hope you have time to relax and time to celebrate the holidays with family and friends. May 2015 bring you wonder, joy, contentment and hope.
Here at the Parkinson’s Unity Walk, Thanksgiving is the time of year when we reflect on all the things we are grateful for – and there are many.
- We are grateful to our walkers who raise awareness of Parkinson’s disease and funds for research each year. They are a committed and resilient group of individuals who meet life’s challenges with grace and humor.
- We are grateful to our donors, many of whom have a personal connection to this important cause. We know how much it means to our walkers to have their support.
- We are grateful to our sponsors. It is their continued and generous support that allows 100% of donations to fund research.
- We are grateful to the Parkinson’s foundations that participate in the Unity Walk. They provide information and resources to the PD community and lead the way on the research funded with donations to the Walk.
- We are grateful to the researchers who use the funds raised at the Walk to move us closer to finding the cause and cure for Parkinson’s disease. Until that day comes, they continue to develop therapies that improve the quality of life of those living with PD.
- We are grateful to our volunteers, many of whom have been with the Walk for many years. The Walk would not be the same without their support.
- We are grateful for the sense of community that is created when thousands of people gather, all committed to finding the cause and cure for Parkinson’s disease.
- We are grateful for the relationships we’ve made through the Parkinson’s Unity Walk. They enrich our lives every day.
Wishing you and yours a wonderful and satisfying Thanksgiving holiday!
Each year, the Parkinson’s Unity Walk has a drawing for the top 50 team captains. The winner receives a memory quilt comprised of team t-shirts from the current Walk. This year’s winner is David Lee, Team Captain of Team James Lee. Congrats to David Lee and also congratulations to all eligible team captains who represented this year’s Top 50 Teams.
The 2014 Unity Walk had close to 500 teams and this is just a sampling of the creative team t-shirts that are worn proudly on the day of the Walk!
The Unity Walk Memory Quilt was first introduced as a prize at the 19th Walk in 2013 and was received by Dan Lamendola of “A RI Team Since 1997.”
You too can be in the running to receive the Memory Quilt from the 2015 Parkinson’s Unity Walk. All you need to do is start your team early so that you can get started on your fundraising and rally your family and friends, and be among the top 50 team captains!
For more about the quilt, join the conversation on our Facebook Page.
While my family celebrated Mother’s Day each year when I was growing up, I remember my mother telling me that “every day is Mother’s Day.” November is National Family Caregivers Month and I think my mother’s perspective applies – every month is family caregivers month. As Edna Ball explains in her recent blog post, “… the term has evolved to care partner. This is a really important distinction because to achieve the most success, a working partnership is essential.” Anyone living with someone who has been diagnosed with an ongoing disease knows that the illness impacts the entire family on a daily basis and not just the person receiving the diagnosis.
In addition to highlighting some family care partners who participate in the Unity Walk, we want to take this opportunity to share some resources for care partners and focus on legislative initiatives underway to provide them with support.
The National Parkinson Foundation (NPF) is one of several organizations that offer resources to help you navigate the various challenges that may arise as a care partner. These resources include a Toll-free Helpline, a Caring and Coping Manual, a Parkinson’s disease (PD) Library, a Caregiver Forum and a Parkinson’s Central Smartphone App. Here’s how you can learn more to benefit from NPF’s resources and tips for care partners.
CAREGIVER ROUNDTABLE AND PENDING LEGISLATION
This past week, Sen. Cory Booker (D-NJ) and Rep. Bill Pascrell (D-NJ) hosted a roundtable on caregiving in Englewood, New Jersey. Unity Walk participants and Parkinson’s Action Network (PAN) Assistant State Directors for NJ, Lisa Paillex Griffin and Joe Narciso were in attendance along with Joe’s wife, Charlene. Sen. Booker and Rep. Pascrell also recently sponsored legislation about caregiving. Learn more about the roundtable and pending legislation about caregiving.
PARKINSON’S JOURNEY: A CARE PARTNER’S PERSPECTIVE
“Whether it is because of Parkinson’s disease or because I’m now older (I suspect a little of both), above all, you learn patience and hope,” states David Maloney. “You learn to appreciate all of the moments, both the large and small, of the life that you are living together. You learn that people want to help and that you and your family can help others by participating in clinical trials, raising funds for research, by being available to them to listen, and by sharing your experience.” This is one perspective of a family’s Parkinson’s journey … read this guest blog post written by a husband, and care partner.
A LONGSTANDING CARE PARTNER
Edna Ball, co-founder of Team Parkinson has lived with Parkinson’s disease since she was 11 years old – first with her mother’s diagnosis of PD at the age of 48 and then when her husband, John was diagnosed over 40 years ago. The years have brought wisdom and some valuable lessons which Edna has shared on our blog. Her comment that spoke to me the most was, “Always remember that every day may not be good, BUT there is something good in every day. Give yourself permission to recognize that goodness and enjoy it.” Read more of Edna’s story about being a longstanding care partner.
CARING FROM A DISTANCE
Sara Beam’s parents lived in North Carolina. Her father had been diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease close to twenty years ago. She and her brothers lived in New York, Massachusetts and Texas and needed to develop strategies to care for their parents from a distance. As Sara’s mom became ill with cancer and after her death, the situation required an increased level of care. Learn more about how Sara and her siblings took on the responsibility of caring for their aging parents from a distance.
The Unity Walk is about community and it takes a loving community to participate in the care of someone living with Parkinson’s disease. Whether you are a care partner for your spouse, parent, child, sibling or friend, we take a moment in November to honor all you do throughout the year.
by Edna Ball, Care Partner and Co-founder, Team Parkinson
When I was 11 years old my mother was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease (PD) at the age of 48, and so began what was to become my life long journey as a care partner. My mother lived with PD for 37 years. I also married a man who after our 10 year anniversary was diagnosed with the same disease. My husband now has had PD for over 40 years.
When this journey first began the term for me, and thousands of others, was caregiver. In recent years the term has evolved to care partner. This is a really important distinction because to achieve the most success, a working partnership is essential.
Over all these years I have learned some valuable lessons. The most important is that open and honest communication is vital. None of us are mind readers, and it is crucial for both the care partner and the person with PD, to have the freedom to express themselves without fear of hurt feelings. Walking on eggshells all the time in fear of stressing the other out is even more stressful than getting feelings off one’s chest and then dealing with the issues at hand. And stress is bad for all concerned. Honesty, mixed with kindness and compassion, is key.
It is also extremely important to take care of your own physical, mental and emotional health so that you can be fully present in the care of your loved one. Sometimes that means taking a break from the day-to-day grind. And that in turn might mean asking for help. Asking for help when you need it, without guilt, is one of the smartest things you can do. Surround yourself with family and friends who can chip in when needed.
Educate yourself about the disease, participate in support groups but don’t go overboard and don’t let PD become an obsession that robs you of all the good things you can and should still enjoy. Read about the latest research up to a point, accompany your loved one on doctor’s visits, and keep a current list of medications with you. Do whatever is necessary to stay on top of things, to be prepared and thereby to reduce your own level of stress on a daily basis.
But always remember that not everything in the health of your loved one is about Parkinson’s. There is the normal aging process that visits all of us, care partners included, and it’s good to remember that and not get bogged down thinking everything is the fault of PD. And remind your loved one of that too as you work together on this mutual path to a better and easier existence.
If you practice mutual respect and maintain a sense of humor, life with Parkinson’s disease will be easier. Always remember that every day may not be good, BUT there is something good in every day. Give yourself permission to recognize that goodness and enjoy it.
You can learn more about Edna Ball’s journey as a caregiver and her work with Team Parkinson, via Team Parkinson’s website team-parkinson.org.